In this set of books, there are spiritual solutions which help people bring peace and harmony in their worldly life. In worldly interactions, only love can win over children, husband, wife, family, friends, employees, workers and everyone else. Any other means will ultimately prove to be futile.
Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science) has answered all kinds of questions regarding the interactions between a husband and a wife. One can also learn the art of parenting and find all solutions with a scientific and spiritual approach to help one strengthen his relationships. Param Pujya Dadashri was also married, but he never had a single difference of opinion with his wife in his entire life.
1) Harmony in Marriage
How can peace prevail? For peace, you have to understand dharma (religion, one's duties, moral code of conduct). You should tell everyone at home, "We are not each other's enemies; nobody should have quarrels with each other. There is no need to have differences of opinion. Let us share with each other what we have and let us be happy." That is how you should think and do everything. You should never quarrel with people at home. How can you quarrel with people you have to share the same home with? Nobody has ever been happy by making others miserable. We want to be happy by giving happiness. We can only be happy if we make others happy at home. You will be served a good cup of tea with a smile, if you avoid conflicts using this understanding. Otherwise, they will ruin your tea before they serve it to you.
Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science) in the book "Harmony in Marriage" has answered all kinds of questions regarding the interactions between a husband and a wife which can help resolve relationship problems and to lead a happy married life. Param Pujya Dadashri was also married, but he never had a single difference of opinion with his wife in his entire life. This book is a compilation of questions proposed to the Spiritual Master Param Pujya Dadashri over a period of thirty years following his spontaneous Self-realization.
In Akram Science one can find all the necessary marriage advice which can help one in having a happy married life.
2) Generation Gap
If you become a friend to your children, parent-child relation will improve. But if you assert your authority as a parent, you will risk losing them. Your friendship should be such that the child will not go looking for comfort and guidance elsewhere. Real parents are those who manage to change their children's behavior through love and understanding, even when the child does dreadful things. This world can only be won over through love.
Parents themselves should develop moral values that result in a loving family environment. The love from parents should be such that their children would not want to leave them. If you want to improve your child, the responsibility lies with you. You are bound by your duty towards your child.
Parenting teenagers is probably one of the hardest endeavors for parents to be skillful at, the one they are least trained for. With an in depth and complete understanding of the youth of today, Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science) has shown us how to win them over.
In this book Param Pujya Dadashri helps parents on how to deal with children, instill moral values, discipline and manners in them. Param Pujya Dadashri has also guided the youth on how to strengthen child parent relationship and take care of parents as it is the highest religion.
3) Pure Love
With love one would never see the fault of the wife or the children throughout his life. In love, one never sees any faults at all. Just look at how people find faults with each other. 'You are like that.' 'No, you are like that.' The world has not seen even an iota of love. All this is infatuation and attraction of illusion.
True love does not increase or decrease. True love is unconditional. There is no expectation in love. Love never expects anything.
In worldly interactions, only love can win over children, workers and everyone else. Any other means will ultimately prove to be futile.
Even when you grow a plant, you have to nurture it with love. Merely pouring water over it and shouting at it will not do it. If done with love, if you talk to it with love, it will give you nice big flowers! So imagine how much more it can affect humans!
If one wants to acquire the supreme love, a love that this world has not seen, heard, believed or experienced before, then one should worship the living embodiment of love, the Gnani Purush (master of spiritual science).
Read on to fill your life with love and happiness.
4) Science of Speech
Words are like money. Use them as you use money, by counting each one.
Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science) gives us tremendous insight into the fundamental and subtle principles that govern speech. He gives us practical solutions of how to purify verbal interaction with our friends and family so that it hurts no one. Param Pujya Dadashri has a knack, using numerous illustrations, for making the reader feel that it is the reader’s life that is the subject of conversation. His solutions reach the heart directly and lead to liberation.
Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science) has exposed the true nature of speech. Speech is inanimate; it is a record. When you play a tape, the tape has to be recorded first, isn’t it? In the same way, the tape of your entire life’s speech has already been recorded in the past life and in this life it is just playing itself. Just as a record starts playing when the needle is placed on the record, so will the record of your speech commence as soon as the appropriate circumstances arise.
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